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Yet even though she was enjoying herself again, friends and family pushed her to build a permanent relationship with a more suitable man - a pressure which increased when she turned 60.
So Wendy started dating men in their 50s and 60s - but found they did not compare favourably.
'I've had dates with older men who never asked me a single question about myself.
One spent the entire evening talking about his prostate.' But Wendy did meet one older man she liked - 63-year-old Raymond, whom she met last summer through a singles group she runs in North London.
'The men I meet say women their age are shallow and set on marriage and babies - so it works both ways. 'Friends carry on nagging, but I don't think I'll ever find a man of my age.
I'll carry on dating toyboys for the foreseeable future.
But despite appearances - including that of well-spoken, well-to-do Wendy herself - the blonde 63-year-old is anything but a typical grandmother.
These are wealthy men, but I've seen better dressed tramps.I haven't had plastic surgery, but I probably will do.'Unfortunately, just because I still feel 18 inside, that doesn't mean the outside matches.' What younger men want from Wendy is equally intriguing. 'I've had to really steel myself not to get attached, which is hard as women are programmed to become emotionally involved.' Her friends and family still hope she'll eventually settle down, but Wendy is adamant she won't.'I also have my best conversations with younger men because they are actually interested in me, whereas older men have been programmed to think they have more value than women.'Modern-day equality didn't exist when men of my age were learning about the world.